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We are glad that you are desiring purity and want to use our materials to position yourself to become stamped a PROVEN Man™. It will be a challenging time, but one you never need go alone again. First, the Lord will never leave nor forsake you (Hebrews 13:5). Second, you can and should link up with another man for mutual support and encouragement (Proverbs 27:17). You may find that it takes going through the materials two or three times before your feet are set on solid ground. Be patient. God is far more interested in the process of meeting with you and conforming you into His character than He is interested in seeing you simply free from one particular sin. You will understand this principle and process more as you work through the study. Keep looking to God for healing and hope. He will provide.

Currently, we request a donation for hard copies of our materials. Although a free PDF is available under the Resource link at the right side of the website, it is best to work from a hard copy of the workbook. If you cannot afford to make a donation, you can request a free copy by sending us an email at info@provenmen.org. (In the coming months, we will be printing a revised edition of the study. Check back.)

Of course, because we are a non-profit ministry, we hope that you will desire to make a generous donation. We will use your tax-deductible gift to further the ministry, such as preparing additional materials, making materials available to those who cannot afford them, and training leaders in ministering to those ensnared by the grip of sexually compulsive behaviors.

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12-week Daily Study on Breaking Free From Bondage to Pornography, Masturbation, Lust, and Fantasy.

Our 12-week workbook study, named Striving for Absolute Purity, is the hallmark of our ministry because it seeks to guide people not simply away from sexual sins, but into a dependant relationship with the Lord whereas the underlying desire for purity outweighs the selfishness and pride that keeps a person in bondage to sexual sins.

Breaking free from the grip of pornography, fantasy, lust, masturbation or another sexually compulsive activity is one of the hardest struggles you will face in life. Many self-help books and programs teach you how to avoid temptation to lessen your daily struggle. However, they don't provide lasting relief because they are based upon your strength and abilities. Consider what the Bible has to say on this topic:

Since you died with Christ to the basic principles of this world, why, as though you still belong to it, do you submit to its rules: "Do not handle! Do not taste! Do not Touch!" These are all destined to perish with use, because they are based on human commands and teachings. Such regulations indeed have an appearance of wisdom, with their self-imposed worship, their false humility and their harsh treatment of the body, but they lack any value in restraining sensual indulgences.
Colossians 2:20-23.

This biblically-based study is very intense in terms of time and soul searching. We suggest that you devote at least 50 minutes a day. The study is structured to incorporate each of the characteristics of the PROVEN acronym into your daily life. Although the study is only 12 weeks long, it is designed to give you a sure foundation and setting you on the lifetime path of healing. It also is designed to be repeated one of more times over the year and suggests other Bible-based studies to move you through the first hard year.

Accountability: Why and How

We suggest that you begin and maintain an accountability partner while working through the workbook study. There is just something about breaking the vow of silence that helps a man break free from sin. Because people trapped in bondage to sexual sins are substituting false forms of intimacy, such as pornography or masturbation, and many experience sharp pains of guilt or shame, most are reluctant to link up with another when fighting to break free. Unfortunately, this solo approach almost always fails. There are relatively few books or articles outlining the Biblical basis for accountability partners. The reason we have place this short article in our bookstore is to highlight the importance pursuing accountability relationships.

This important article may be downloaded below. It explains the Biblical basis for accountability and how to accomplish it. The goal is to spur you on to pushing through the discomfort of being open and vulnerable in order to allow the Lord to use others in your life to bring lasting healing.

Click here to download a copy of ACCOUNTABILITY PARTNERSHIPS: A Key to Breaking Free From the Grip of Pornography.

Leader's Guide for Forming Small Recovery Groups

The Leader's Guide is a companion to the Striving for Absolute Purity study. It is a detailed how to form and lead a small support group using the 12-week study as a platform. You may be surprised to find out that you are able to lead a group.

Click Here to download a copy of Leader's Guide You must have Acrobat PDF Reader to download this document. If you do not have Acrobat, you can download it here.