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Do you struggle with lustful thoughts, pornography, masturbation or another sexual sin? Maybe you have tried many times to stop but have not been able to shake this noose from around your neck. Well, there is hope. Regardless of your past, you can break free from the grip of lust.
The first step is understanding more about the cause and then embracing the cure:

"The Nature of Sexual Immorality" (you must first see your actions as wrong before you will do whatever it takes to change).

"Freedom From Sexual Bondage" (although a lot more could be said, it gives you an overview of the effect of sexual sins and directs you along the only road to freedom)

"Why Jesus?" (how and why Jesus must be included in your process of breaking free from the grip of sexual bondage).

Proven Men Ministries is designed to help you rebuild and retain sexual purity, regardless of the particular reasons why you turned to it.  The story of hope can best be described through the lenses of two hypothetical men, John and Tim, based upon common situations.  Look for the commonality in your own life and apply the same principles.  Five years from now, you too will be a helpful example for others.  eyehaswas founded by someone just like you.  

John was the typical overachiever who believed he could overcome anything.  Tim on the other hand, was an underchiever who could never please his dad.  Although very different men, they shared a commonality of the belief that if people really knew them, they would no like them.  Each vowed a life of secrecy about their struggles with pornography and masturbation.  Follow their stories and learn how they each embraced and are living out PROVEN™ lives, having rebuilt and now are retaing sexual integrity through transformed and renewed lives.

"The Story of John and Tim"

Freedom from the grip of sexual bondage is not accomplished by following a formula. It is a process by which you are transformed by God, and thereby lead a victorious life.

In fact, Scriptures teaches that the formulas and rules taught by men, such as do not touch this or stay away from that, although they have "an appearance of wisdom," lack any value in restraining sensual indulgences (Colossians 2:23). Of course you already know this and that is why you are still searching for help. Fortunately, God provides the answers (as well as the means) for us to live a victorious life! Are you willing to do whatever it takes?

Taking Your Next Steps.

An intensive 12-week daily study named Striving For Absolute Purity is designed to lead you into a PROVEN life. Although there are no magical formulas, this study can be an important tool for you to experience lasting freedom. The goal of the workbook is to invoke a heart change and a renewed mind by positioning you to meet daily with the Lord. Of course, we strongly recommend that you go through the study with an accountability partner. In addition, expect healing to occur over your entire life-time, punctuated by noticeable periods of higher levels over the years as you stay the course. (Obtain copies of the study and the accountability workbook at our bookstore.)

If you are married, you will want to involve your wife in the healing process.  Read (and her also read) "Words For Wives." Sexual sins affect more than just you.

Some Additional Resources. Although there are many books promising freedom, almost everyone falls short because they are dependent upon your following a program or relying upon your abilities. Again, you already know that if that were the way out, you would have found it. We have kept the list short because reading a book or getting counsel from a therapist will not free you. It is only by the grace and power of God. But it means far more than asking God to take away the temptations or to free you.

"Additional Resources"