By: Shane James O’Neill Pornography is a powerful force. Many of us started watching porn while we were young. Consequently, our biology, thinking, and habits have been shaped by porn to pursue porn. Pornography rewires our brains and it changes the ways we view people and goals. Porn also changes how we respond when…
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Three Ways to Know Purity in 2019
By: Shane James O’Neill Just like that, it’s a new year. But purity doesn’t happen overnight: years of messing around and feasting your imagination on raw lust takes time to rework. The practices of lust we’ve allowed to shape us are only transformed by practices of purity. Looking at people as social, physical, and…
Assess Your Sexual Purity: Free Purity Quiz!
By: Shane James O’Neill Proven Men has created a purity quiz to show you where you are on a scale of sexual purity. We run churches and schools through this assessment and it can be used in small groups, among friends and family, and in other areas of discipleship. We want to give it to…
Mind Hacks for Porn Addicts
By: Alexander Jackson DECADES OF ADDICTION Did you try to kick any habits before your wedding? Maybe you’re not married yet but that’s your plan. How fast can you drop a porn addiction? Reddit users don’t find it very easy. The Reddit subcategory for porn addiction is heartbreaking to read. (If you check it…
Christian Violence
By: Victor Stanely Jr. and Marcia Smith The Violent Christian Pacifist “Murder is a tough thing to digest, it’s a slow process, and I ain’t got nothin’ but time…” These words are uttered by Jay-Z on the song Dead President II. The words capture the thinking of a certain type of person whom I like…
Assess Your Sexual Purity
By: Shane James O’Neill Proven Men has created a purity quiz to show you where you are on a scale of sexual purity. We run churches and schools through this assessment, but we want to give it to you for free. So here you go! Before The Assessment, a quick disclaimer Purity works on…
A Resolution For Purity
Are you tired of being trapped in porn and masturbation? Do you want to find the relationship with God that you’ve always yearned for? Don’t live another year enslaved, wanting to grow but not knowing how. The Proven Workbook is designed to get you face to face with Jesus so that you can know…
Don’t Be Too Proud To Get Help
Sexual integrity is not easy. We can’t passively wage war against a cultural force, we need to be desperate in ou fight against porn. Your habits and simple indulgences are more damaging than you’re aware. Proven Men is going to give you a set of products that have been unbelievably valuable for churches that…